The "Get to know me" Game

[Jimenem]

I think I tap my feet more. Though I'm not sure.

Whats the difference between liking someone as more than just a friend and loving someone?? Or you could take the question further and answer whats the difference between loving someone, and being in love with someone?

[jimliker]

loving someone means u can love anybody & in any way like a friend, or a brother or sister, or a father or mother , or a daughter or son. If you like a girl or guy then it can be just as good friends. But fall in love or be in love with someone then you want to have a relationship with that person like getting physical, sexual, emotional...everything. Liking someone can only be emotional but loving someone can be physical.

Can our best friend be our life partners?

[KC8t80]

I like to think so.

would it be better to fall, hard, in love with someone or have a temporary love for someone?

[jimliker]

its better to fall hard in love with someone coz temporary love will not work in a longer run...it will just waste ur time & energy.

what do u beleive in - one night stand or sleep with someone u r deeply in love?

[Jimenem]

I believe you shouls only sleep with someone you're married to. Because then you don't have to worry about whether or not they're truly in love with you because they already proved itto you by marrying you, and committing 100% I believe this VERY strongly.

And I don't beilieve being in love means you're sexually active with them, falling in love can happen when sex isn't even part of the puzzle.

Would you rather love someone who doesn't love you, or marry someone that loves you even though you may not feel the same?

[Eskarpin]

It could love which it does not love to me, but could not marry to me with somebody that it does not love


same question

[jimliker]

I would marry someone who luvs me coz he will respect me & accept me for who i am...that would also make me fall in luv with him

i also dont beleive that falling in luv mean sexual only but it could develop feelings in u that u can be sexual with that person one day...sooner or later. Also, you do have self control on sex coz if u truely luv someone u will be more emotionally involved & sex for u will be secondary thing for which u can wait till marriage


How important is sex to u before marriage or how important is sex to u after marriage?

[Jimenem]

Ok, I'm going to give you the exact opposite of what you'd expect from an 18 year old male. But Sex is something that's fun to do (or so I've heard) but I don't think it's vital to Love. I would marry someone, if I loved them regaurdless of whether or not she could ever sexually gratify me. It would NOT be vital to my marriage, but it would be fun And sex before marriage is just stupid in my opinion, (no offence to anyone)

Same question

[Happygal]

Hey, I just checked out this post and I'm lost. I know how to play, I just need to be brought up to speed.

[jims_lost_daughter]

answer the question from above then write your own for the next person to answer, and i guess the next question is...

How important is sex to u before marriage or how important is sex to u after marriage?

wow ill let you answer it

[Niobe]

Whoah, this thread got deep all of a sudden!!

Well, thats a good question and I think the answer will be different for everyone. I think my answer will be different to Jimenem's for example....or rather experience has made it so for me. But I respect every angle.
Sex is important whatever side of marriage you are on. That's what I believe. I have been married before (didn't last) and now I live with man who I've been with ten years. But we are not married. Before I get shot down in flames for it I think my experiences have taught me that marriage is perhaps not my ideal option. I'm not sure I'll ever marry again, and I say that knowing I've found my man in life.
Sex is therefore important if it's with someone you want to be with and it's what you want.

(Ooops, divulged a bit more than I intended there!! )

Next question: Do you think once you're married, that should be it for life?

[Jimenem]

Not if your spose died. I say remarry, happiness is the main goal in life, not morals (to a certain extent).

Same qeuestion.

[quirky]

Through everything there's still a small part of me that buys the fairy tale.
It may be wishful thinking...or even, naivete...I have never been in love...but I think I'd only marry someone who I felt was my soul mate.

OK, before we have to rename this the "Get to know my deepest thoughts"...

Daisies or roses?

[Retard_Messiah]

Roses is more romantic in my opinion.

same question

[KC8t80]

roses


tulips or carnations?