This is all very sad to hear about Jim but people cant help how they feel it seems Jenny has moved on maybe even before they broke up...
She said she was with a guy for 5 years and still wasn't sure if he was gay or not she said she wanted a real man I know that's hard to hear but its the truth..
Sometimes the truth is hard to face trust me I know but would he really want to be with her knowing that she feels this way????
If I knew that the man I loved was in love with someone else that would help me to get past it I would never want to be with anyone that didn't want to be with me...
Jim is a very smart kind and wonderful soul what ever your preference and I know he will get past this things work out best 4 the ones that make the best of the way things works out!
We have to be able to be our self what ever that is or he will never be happy again we can't change who you are so someone will love us they have to love us for who ever we are...
I will love you 4 ever and a day my friend chin up I'm sure things will be better before you know it think positive!!!!! Hugs